There might be points in life when you might have just bumped into someone’s life so deeply that you feel signs of being attached to them and want to go further, but then you think that your feelings might not be mutual and you might end up even ruining what you had earlier or maybe it’s just some lust you might feel on the outside just for some time and then you regret that small step in the future. Is that person your perfect crush?
Here’s a small guide to know if it’s just a lust or something more:
1. You are completely honest with them.
This usually happens when you like someone, you share every piece of life and happiness with them wishing that they were a part of that too and making memories. You never lie to your crush and even when you do it eats you up and you confess the right thing.
Every lie can be hidden but a single truth will shatter it all and stand tall even if he/she likes it or not. You can consider it one of the signs.
2. Every time you only dream and think of them.
Every moment of your day is occupied with their thoughts. You wish every time you were with them. The last person you think about before going to sleep and the first person to worry about in morning is them. And that’s not all, even your dreams had them.
3. Songs, Movies and other things happening in life start to have meanings.
This is just the beginning. Whenever you listen a sad or romantic song or a movie or any real life happening you dream yourself to be with that person in your wildest imaginations. That person is the center of everything you do and relate to. There are enough songs about having a crush so, you don’t have to think that you are insane while thinking about them during a beautiful song.
Sometimes you happen to visit beautiful places and then you listen to something that reminds you of them and you become serious.
4. Eye Contact.
This is the foremost thing you start having. You look directly into their eyes and the world stops for you, as if it’s some time loop. You look into the deep ocean willing to dive in and go deeper. And most of the times your crush might blush or maybe just when you get out of that loop, you might feel a bit uncomfortable and relieved too.
And this happens too often if you are into them. And there’s no way you can get the same feeling with anyone else at that time.
5. Loyalty and Insecurity.
You can’t look at the other gender like earlier. You find their face attached to everyone you see, the world has only one face now. Whenever you see your crush talking to the other gender and happy, you feel kind of insecure. It’s not like you can’t bear their happiness, you just don’t want anyone else to take what you love, and you know what intentions anyone else can have, so you protect them even if it makes you a villain.
And you’re very aware of all their friends and mutual friends and everything so you’re good at judging who might steal up your crush.
And this happens too often if you are into them. And there’s no way you can get the same feeling with anyone else at that time.
6. Commitment
That’s pretty sure you won’t be putting your paws out in the world like you usually do and try to stay committed to that person, and even repel others so they are the closest to you. Basically, you’re committed to someone who might not be committed to you but you still don’t think of that.
Since everything is hypothetical so you don’t only get committed; you go too far to think how good and long it can go without any hindrance from your side. You can call it one of the most prominent signs of developing a serious crush.
I hope I cleared all your doubts and all these signs might be in your life. Even if not just go and ask them out before it’s too late and you regret it the whole life.
P.S. This may also apply to people who seriously fell for someone without knowing them and still root them and care for them secretly.
What is the worst that can happen? Other than just being friends with the person you love, before they have to choose someone else thinking the same maybe.